{"id":3139,"date":"2011-10-01T15:37:11","date_gmt":"2011-10-01T22:37:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/new.wavewithoutashore.cwgservices.org\/?p=3139"},"modified":"2011-10-01T21:36:10","modified_gmt":"2011-10-02T04:36:10","slug":"so-many-have-sadness-going-on-with-pets","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cherryh.com\/WaveWithoutAShore\/so-many-have-sadness-going-on-with-pets\/","title":{"rendered":"So many have sadness going on with pets&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let me share a little something that is, however crazy, at least true in the way I look at the universe.  Jane and I have always said that our kittehs&#8217; having nine lives&#8212;and I&#8217;m sure doggies have something the same&#8212;is their way of keeping up with our long human lifespan. And when a kitteh is getting ready to leave us, somewhere a kitten or cat or other four-foot is getting an extra life, not maybe apparent, but so there, one will.<\/p>\n<p> So when Efanor left us, I showed Jane pix of black kittens I&#8217;d found on the interwebs, and most were meh, nice, but&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>Then one litter of them just reached out and grabbed her. She looked at two of three. We were and we weren&#8217;t going to get one of them, maybe&#8212;then not: they&#8217;d been promised&#8212;and finally got an offer of the third, the youngest; and Jane confessed of the three, that one&#8212;that one, that little face in the background was the one she kept thinking of. So we had to pass muster with, I think, the whole extended family of the people that had the kittens; and we agreed, and they agreed, and we drove 50 miles up north. Jane picked up the kitten in question and it was just instant&#8212;she wasn&#8217;t turning loose of him. Eushu settled in Jane&#8217;s lap on the return drive and stayed there, all during a 50 mile drive home, and never cried, which was very odd for such a tiny kitten. His mannerisms are sometimes like Efanor, but oh, now and again he resonates with that Prince of Cats, Elrond, that Jane lost in OKC. So we&#8217;re sure we nabbed a couple of spare lives that so needed to come home.<\/p>\n<p>I nearly lost Ysabel this summer, too; and she&#8217;s had her off and on crises&#8212;dangerous, since Eushu was such a handful&#8212;he&#8217;d hit her like a ton of furry bricks, all good will, but hard.<\/p>\n<p>To protect Ysabel from Demonkitten, we decided we needed a second kitten. We planned on it. I looked. And then I saw Seishi&#8217;s picture on the internet, and I couldn&#8217;t stop looking at it. I read the body language in that photo, and I just was hooked. An adult cat. I&#8217;d never planned on an adult, let alone an adult tomcat. We went to get him, with Shu in tow, to see if they could possibly get along, because oh, I wanted him. Seishi was a whole year old, and a little more. But strong enough to stand up to Shu&#8217;s rowdy antics. To our relief, that part worked. They love each other. And Ysabel gets to have her naps secure in the knowledge she won&#8217;t be landed on.<\/p>\n<p>But the spooky part. I&#8217;m getting to that. When I got Ysabel, it was because I&#8217;d lost my dear old Khym, who passed somewhat before Elrond; and Khym was so special, had such special ways of communicating with me, I declared I wouldn&#8217;t get another Persian. I couldn&#8217;t. I&#8217;d get a little boy kitteh as different as possible, a Siamese, and start over.<\/p>\n<p>Well&#8212;I got Ysabel instead&#8212;quite by accident. The kitten I&#8217;d agreed to buy had gotten sold, right before I arrived to pick him up, and at this point I so needed a kitten, in the worst way. So I took a female I hadn&#8217;t planned on, who turned out to have allergies and every strike against her.<\/p>\n<p>Except two. She had me. And Jane. And she was our kitten, our odd little we-don&#8217;t-know-how-we-got-her kitten, Who reminds me most of my streetwise Tabby, who was the kitty that started all my kittehs, when I was about 6&#8212;independent. Self-willed. I had no idea what her name was. <\/p>\n<p>But on the way home in the car, with this Siamese kitten, who was blond and stripeless, she informed me her name was Ysabel. Had always been Ysabel. With a Y. No reason. No figuring. Peaches, Queen of the Universe, was back. And I have loved her every step of the way, and she does remind me most of long-lost Tabby. She brought up Efanor. She lost him, and nearly pined away. And then, poor old dear, she took on Eushu, tried to teach him manners&#8212;and needed help with him.<\/p>\n<p>Well, so we got Seishi. He was shy. A little standoffish. But the hour I got him to trust me, he couldn&#8217;t contain himself, just wanting to be held. And I realized suddenly what I&#8217;d seen in that photo, in those huge gold eyes. That was Khym&#8217;s look. That was absolutely Khym&#8217;s look, the one I thought I&#8217;d never find the like of again.<\/p>\n<p>I still have Ysabel, thank goodness. I&#8217;m lucky. She&#8217;s taking care of the household and keeping the boys in line, being the matriarch, She Who Must Be Obeyed. But every morning, once I&#8217;ve given Her Furry Grace her brushing, and her kibble, and her fresh water, and her respect as head of household, here&#8217;s Sei, sweet and shy, and so wanting to head-butt and be held and petted for a little while, not in Ysabel&#8217;s Chair, but in the one I work in.<\/p>\n<p>I think they find us. I don&#8217;t know where Sei got his extra life, or if he was born with it. I&#8217;m not a superstitious sort, but that&#8217;s my Halloween cat story, for October, and that&#8217;s what I&#8217;ll say about Seishi. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let me share a little something that is, however crazy, at least true in the way I look at the universe. Jane and I have always said that our kittehs&#8217; having nine lives&#8212;and I&#8217;m sure doggies have something the same&#8212;is their way of keeping up with our long human lifespan. 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